Its 5.30pm, a beautiful evening. I am having tea with my family and
thanking god for this lovely moment which he has imparted me to share with my family. Suddenly,the phone rang and my mother received it. A stream of blood ran down her face and it became pale.After she finished talking, I asked her what happened. With a very low tone of voice she informed me that one of her friend’s son has committed suicide. The parents have no clue why he did it as no suicide note was found.
So friends I am here writing this blog, to share some of my views regarding students
Committing suicide. Please note that I have taken some of the problems which teenagers deal with. There may be many others, but even then SUICIDE IS NO OPTION. Here I would be discussing some reasons which force a person to take such bold steps like suicide as well as solutions too.
1. NOT DOING WELL IN STUDIES- It may be scoring fewer marks in an examination, not
qualifying any exam, etc. I know it is very depressing to see yourself as a looser when all of
your friends are way ahead of you. It becomes even worse when other parents come asking about your result and comparing yours with their extraordinarily brilliant children.
This may sound weird, but it’s a fact that every person on this earth has been given the
same amount of brains. The reason why you did not do well and the other person did is just
because he has put in the extra effort which you didn’t. So, as said” the largest room in this
world is the room for improvement” you can always come up with flaring colors.
2. NOT GETTING A JOB-I know how it feels when you see your fellow mates being tagged as “students with jobs” and you as “a looser”. Its very hard to swallow peoples fake condolence and sympathy.It looks like the whole world is gauging on you, your parents are disappointed, friends falling apart etc.The first and foremost thing, your parents would love to see an unemployedchild rather than a dead one. So, in case you think of taking such bold steps just once see your parents face and feel their love. Secondly, friends who start falling apart do not deserve to be your friend.
Friendship is all about walking side by side even when the going gets rough.
3. WHAT PEOPLE WOULD SAY- This is the greatest reason, which lures a teen to commit suicide. As soon as we are struck with failure , our heads starts spinning with thoughts of what others would be thinking about us.Firstly, remember no one in this entire world is thinking about you. Because everyone is very much busy thinking about themselves. The one who do, are the biggest looser themselves. If you cannot resist yourself, then simply look at the person who is trying to make you feel down. Just ask the question “whether the person is really worth giving an opinion on my failure?”. A financially broke person giving you advise on how to become a millionaire is definitely not worth your attention. So, always choose intelligently from who the remarks are coming.
Secondly, it’s the most idiotic thing, to commit suicide just because a person whom you met just an hour ago is saying ill about you. You are ready to end your life because of that one
person and many more who you don’t even know proprly. Your parents who have brought you up in thick and thins should be the top most people in your priority list . And if they dont have any problem why the hell you should think about some others despair.
4. HEART-BROKEN- Many commit suicide after a broken relationship or facing rejection. One and the only thing you should keep in mind is that “love is not life instead it is only a part of life”.
You yourself can choose between giving up ur life for a person whom you have met some years before or living for the person (our parents) who have always loved you ever since you were born. The only creature except your parents who will love you more than themselves is a dog. So, it’s good to have a relationship but it’s not at all worth giving up your life.
This world is a lovely place to live in and you should be thankful to god for giving you life. Everything that has happened can be undone with a slight change in your attitude. So, try and kill the attitude which you may think was responsible for your failure. Life is beautiful,live it large.
thanking god for this lovely moment which he has imparted me to share with my family. Suddenly,the phone rang and my mother received it. A stream of blood ran down her face and it became pale.After she finished talking, I asked her what happened. With a very low tone of voice she informed me that one of her friend’s son has committed suicide. The parents have no clue why he did it as no suicide note was found.
So friends I am here writing this blog, to share some of my views regarding students
Committing suicide. Please note that I have taken some of the problems which teenagers deal with. There may be many others, but even then SUICIDE IS NO OPTION. Here I would be discussing some reasons which force a person to take such bold steps like suicide as well as solutions too.
1. NOT DOING WELL IN STUDIES- It may be scoring fewer marks in an examination, not
qualifying any exam, etc. I know it is very depressing to see yourself as a looser when all of
your friends are way ahead of you. It becomes even worse when other parents come asking about your result and comparing yours with their extraordinarily brilliant children.
This may sound weird, but it’s a fact that every person on this earth has been given the
same amount of brains. The reason why you did not do well and the other person did is just
because he has put in the extra effort which you didn’t. So, as said” the largest room in this
world is the room for improvement” you can always come up with flaring colors.
2. NOT GETTING A JOB-I know how it feels when you see your fellow mates being tagged as “students with jobs” and you as “a looser”. Its very hard to swallow peoples fake condolence and sympathy.It looks like the whole world is gauging on you, your parents are disappointed, friends falling apart etc.The first and foremost thing, your parents would love to see an unemployedchild rather than a dead one. So, in case you think of taking such bold steps just once see your parents face and feel their love. Secondly, friends who start falling apart do not deserve to be your friend.
Friendship is all about walking side by side even when the going gets rough.
3. WHAT PEOPLE WOULD SAY- This is the greatest reason, which lures a teen to commit suicide. As soon as we are struck with failure , our heads starts spinning with thoughts of what others would be thinking about us.Firstly, remember no one in this entire world is thinking about you. Because everyone is very much busy thinking about themselves. The one who do, are the biggest looser themselves. If you cannot resist yourself, then simply look at the person who is trying to make you feel down. Just ask the question “whether the person is really worth giving an opinion on my failure?”. A financially broke person giving you advise on how to become a millionaire is definitely not worth your attention. So, always choose intelligently from who the remarks are coming.
Secondly, it’s the most idiotic thing, to commit suicide just because a person whom you met just an hour ago is saying ill about you. You are ready to end your life because of that one
person and many more who you don’t even know proprly. Your parents who have brought you up in thick and thins should be the top most people in your priority list . And if they dont have any problem why the hell you should think about some others despair.
4. HEART-BROKEN- Many commit suicide after a broken relationship or facing rejection. One and the only thing you should keep in mind is that “love is not life instead it is only a part of life”.
You yourself can choose between giving up ur life for a person whom you have met some years before or living for the person (our parents) who have always loved you ever since you were born. The only creature except your parents who will love you more than themselves is a dog. So, it’s good to have a relationship but it’s not at all worth giving up your life.
This world is a lovely place to live in and you should be thankful to god for giving you life. Everything that has happened can be undone with a slight change in your attitude. So, try and kill the attitude which you may think was responsible for your failure. Life is beautiful,live it large.
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